Approximately 3 years ago, I had some haemorrhoids & anal skin tags removed, but since then I have had occasional external bleeding after a bowel movement (wiping) and during anal sex. Then 6 months ago, I had more surgery for haemorrhoid removal, but again, no changes. Recent colonoscopy revealed no issue. Is there a form of cosmetic surgery that can help? Reconstructive surgery? Devastated atm.
I suggest that you see you colorectal doctor again.
You need to see a colorectal surgeon and not a plastic surgeon.